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I have seen women with tops on that reveal a lot of what a shirt is suppose to cover up. I am writing this to those women, not to other people about them.

I feel sorry for you because I don't think you understand what you are doing. I think that to at least a certain degree I assume you are trying to find a man who finds you attractive. What I believe is that the men you are attracting to you are working hard to accomplish that particular goal of seeking personal fulfilment by gratification from your attractiveness. The bigger point is that the teaching of the Bible tells us that having sex in marriage is a very good thing and even a command of GOD. One man and one women, two flesh become one. Relationships with other people must be a lot deeper than only being about sex though or those relationships will not be very successful at all. So if the primary way that you are trying to attract men is because they physically desire you (I think male and female do this to feel cool also because of pride.), how do you really know that the men you are attracting really feel a deeper attraction to you in ways other than sex alone? If a man's physical attraction to you is their primary reason for being with you, then you will feel very alone. Men honour GOD also by obeying Him and let Him guide your relationships with women. Trust in JESUS to answer all your prayers in GOD's timing!

1 Corinthians 7:1-7 (ESV) 1 "Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 Now as a concession, not a command, I say this. 7 I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another."

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